Most of you are aware of Don Draper’s (Madmen) sexual antics in the 1960’s work place. What does today’s office romance look like?
A ProVault.com study found that 40% of workers have had an office romance. A recent survey of 8000 workers by CareerBuilder.com found that 4 out of 10 employees have dated someone at work. Not fair, but women are seen in a more negative light than men when it comes to workplace romance. Often, women are seen as using an office relationship to get ahead. If you’re thinking of making moves on someone at work, here are some pros and cons to consider:
Pro: You spend time together and have common topics to talk about.
Con: An office romance can generate gossip and distrust.
Pro: Most workers indicated they do not mind seeing a romance develop between two unmarried colleagues.
Con: While workplace romances may seem harmless, they can in fact lead to serious problems, such as co-workers taking sides and an awkward work environment.
Pro: Office romances can make going to work more exciting and something to look forward to.
Con: Office romances can lead to some type of sexual harassment or accusations of sexual harassment.
Pro: It’s possible to meet your future spouse at or through work.
Con: Office romances can lead to careers being derailed as well as charges of favoritism, including overlooking shoddy work.
Our biological drives, attraction and lust can be extremely powerful and can easily overwhelm job titles, income and promotions. In the heat of the moment you may need a jolt to the rational mind like a photo of a loved one, a list of career goals or just a reminder of your credit card statement, mortgage or car loan.
Top 10 Jobs Where Workers Are Likely To Have a Fling (from the Huffington Post)
10. Planning and Expediting Clerks
9. Database Administrators
8. Food Service Managers
7. Automotive Technicians
6. Industrial Machinery Works
5. Occupational Health and Safety Specialists
4. Stock Clerks
1. Artists (Sweet, I’m finally #1 in something!)